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Fighting for Support is an exhausting life long experience.
I am feeling an overwhelming sense of frustration and exhaustion this morning as I grapple with the relentless fight for Special Educational Needs (SEN) support. It is a battle that seems to drain every ounce of energy I possess. Often, I find myself reaching these critical points where I feel as though I have poured all my resources, both emotional and physical, into advocating for those with SEN.

Lyndsay Critchlow
Oct 35 min read
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We are not all PDA!
I have recently come across some rather shocking statements made regarding pathological demand avoidance (PDA), a term that is often...

Lyndsay Critchlow
Sep 95 min read
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Its the back to school dread.
I know we are all pretty much feeling this at the moment, and it’s a sentiment that resonates deeply within many families. For some of...

Lyndsay Critchlow
Sep 26 min read
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Should we still fight for support given the government are trying to change everything?
I fully understand that families are feeling that it seems pointless to apply for support from their local authorities for additional...

Lyndsay Critchlow
Aug 143 min read
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Life with PDA with a side helping of ADHD quests.
I am pretty much struggling recently with a massive avoidance that seems to permeate various aspects of my daily life. This feeling of being overwhelmed has led me to seek refuge in different distractions, and my very recent avoidance tactic has been to embrace my ADHD side quests. These side quests often manifest as spontaneous interests or projects that capture my attention, pulling me away from the tasks I know I should be focusing on. Instead of tackling my responsibiliti

Lyndsay Critchlow
Jul 307 min read
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Feeling safe what does it actually mean?
I know when we talk about our children and feeling safe in school, there is often a tendency among education staff to interpret these...

Lyndsay Critchlow
Jul 224 min read
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How can you really prepare for a tribunal hearing day?
I often get asked how we can effectively prepare for a tribunal, and in response, I find myself providing a very general overview of what...

Lyndsay Critchlow
Jul 25 min read
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My thoughts on the new SEND Tribunal Directions for Bundle Preparation.
I have given much thought to the recent announcement regarding changes to evidence for Special Education Needs and Disability tribunals....

Lyndsay Critchlow
May 66 min read
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What about our future? - Post 16 and SEN
When it comes to post-16 provisions, it is widely recognized as one of the most challenging aspects of the education system for a young...

Lyndsay Critchlow
Apr 154 min read
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The system is broken and so am I!
I don't just mean one system either; every system is broken. Education, health, and social care are all in a state of disrepair, and the...

Lyndsay Critchlow
Apr 410 min read
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Are some professionals on the same universe as me?
I want tonstart out by saying there are some absolutely amazing professionals there from independent to NHS although NHS do seem to be...

Lyndsay Critchlow
Dec 2, 20242 min read
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Internalised PDA.
Internalised PDA and us

Lyndsay Critchlow
Oct 21, 20245 min read
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Relationships the Keystone to Children's Development
Relations ships. ND. Importance. Keystone.

Lyndsay Critchlow
Oct 2, 20249 min read
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On a bad PDA like today
H is the most challenging young man to support. He really grabs at control and whilst doing can say some very awful things to us. We...

Lyndsay Critchlow
Jun 6, 20241 min read
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When your imposter becomes bigger.
I find it really interesting how it all works out in my head. I have times like currently that things are going on in my life that make...

Lyndsay Critchlow
Mar 15, 20242 min read
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Trauma-based imposter syndrome.
I have e always found it very interesting the effect Imposter syndrome has on me. I have never done anything which would be considered...

Lyndsay Critchlow
Nov 16, 20232 min read
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Do we ever feel we fit in?
I haven’t written here in some time but today I have the urge to. It's around identity and fitting in. We often talk a lot about peer...

Lyndsay Critchlow
Oct 9, 20232 min read
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It’s the Jekyll and Hyde moments.
H really is a Jekyll and Hyde character. He is the most loving and helpful child. He is the one that is fi rst to help. He tells me how...

Lyndsay Critchlow
Jun 19, 20232 min read
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The picture that says us
This has to be my favourite photo of my family. It is in fact the photo from mine and Wedding Day. Each pose shows a different...

Lyndsay Critchlow
May 29, 20232 min read
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What to do when all we want to do is help.
I find it challenging to decide what to do to best support W. He struggles so much with so many things it's really really hard to know...

Lyndsay Critchlow
May 22, 20232 min read
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